We love our children, we wish them the best and we want them to grow. We do not look at them as failed adults and even if they are behind when compared to children of their own age, we still do not call them failures. We accept their journey as it is and we love them. This is what I am learning to do for myself, rather than see the gap I am seeing the direction into it. This same drive to fill the space is that feeling I have for my own children when I look at them with loving eyes. My reflection? It is a negative image. A backwards representation. Of course, if I look at my self backwards, I'll see something I am not.